Monday, March 28, 2011

It rained all day long.
I carried a yellow umbrella and didn't think about it at all. 
It was a nice rain, smelled fresh, pushing the blooms out of the spring trees, sprinkling the sidewalks with petals. 
I bought some delicuously soft green apples at the market. The fruit and vegetables glistened, getting washed by the rain. It was nice to walk to school, to my office, dodging umbrellas, watching children in snow boots not even avoiding puddles.
The rain makes me content to sit inside all day and read and bake cookies and drink milk. It was strange, I drank two entire glasses of milk today. I never drink milk.

 

Sunday, March 27, 2011

bokić.

the end of a weekend. spring has arrived and you can see it in the streets. The weekend was spent wandering around outside and observing the strange effect spring has on croatians. It seems as if no one works. I met with some friends for our new tradition...friday afternoon lunch. We sat outside munching on pizzas and salads and every table around us was full and bustling. all of sudden people seemed to actually live in this city. we wandered off next for ice cream (I had two scopes! one lemon, one blueberry...) and coffee. I could get used to this. As we wondered about though we noticed every cafe was full, and let me say on any given street there could be as many 6 cafes. We joked about how it was a sign of weak economy, no one with jobs to be at. But hey, at least everyone looked happy.

Saturday I hung out with Mare and Marko and then tagged along to a family weekend home up on a hill in the countryside for an Aunt's birthday party. We pulled up to a giant yard full of kids kicking a ball around, an old wooden table covered in yummy dishes, like boiled potatoes and onions, and people lounging on blankets. We went for a long walk and Hrvoje and I spoke of graduate schools. Once again I got thinking about the academic life, the possibility of 6, yes 6, more years of school. This year has seemed so unreal I cant hardley think about the future in any logistical kind of way. But peering down on the houses from where I was and breathing in the summer air-it seemed like academia has only brought me good things in my life.

Saturday night there was a party at the contemporary musuem for the closing of an exhibit of young croatian artists. There was lots of schmoozing and "oh dahlings" and kisses on the cheeks. Not to mention free drinks and everyone lingered around getting loose-lips in the process. After plenty of giggles, and conversations about art and artists and gossip we headed out to the used-to-be squat that now hosts aleternative parties, workshops, and other community-fun orientated gatherings. With a couple of glasses of wine my Croatian sounded great and we danced a bit and then took quite a walk home. The best part about spring is walking is nice. even late at night the air is cool and refreshing, not a terrible ice-box to be avoided at all costs.

Sunday rolled around and I had lunch with my roommate then met a friend to actually go check out the art at the musuem before the change the show. the work covered a variety of stuff and for the most part was interesting, not everything was top notch but a few pieces stand out. Mostly I really appreciated the sense of play in all the works. A lot of works invited you to play with them, which is always funny because then it is always the game of should i touch this? what about this? what can i make this do?

After a good dose of art we strolled around novi zagreb, an entirely different feel than the city center. We sat for a coffee before deciding to walk back into town from the suburbs. along the way was a miniture carnival, for no good reason we stopped and literally turned our world upside down. I never knew carnival rides that seem a bit janky and scary cure a hang over-who would of thought?

Then more dinner plans of mashed potatoes, creamed spinach, pork and onions, salad and soy fritters. needless to say I am feeling great and now I am just preping myself for the work that is awaiting me all day tomorrow-oh to the working week!

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

as of late...i can only think in the form of a list.

a. I am very busy. I have heaps of tape to transcribe.
b. I visited Osijek for the first time and it was splendid. Straw artists, delicious steak cooked in truffles, homemade peanut butter cake, positive outlooks on life, my first face mask, and a four more interviews to boot. thanks robin!
c. proofreading. meetings about proofreading.
d. applying for life after croatia, work on a farm in exchange for room and board? Work at a hostel on an island, the job comes with free housing + scooter? head home to the land of unemployed? I shudder with fear, eeeek.
e. The weather here is delightful. I bought a cheap bike. My life moves at a faster pace, see you later trams.
f. I met a really great guy on the train ride back to Zagreb. We spoke for three hours about lots of things. I realized as after he kissed my check goodbye, a custom here I still am not used to, and he hopped off at his stop I never got his name. Its strange how that happens. He told me I was a dreamer.
g. booking plane tickets. booking hostels. figuring out travel, hoping not to get stranded and broke.


These days are full of sunshine and I have lost of all my poetics, they drifted away with the rain clouds.

Is it an accomplishment to say, Can we leave the shoes here and come back and pick them up at 2? We can pay for them now. In croatian? Because I did. Yay for being able to communicate.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

a call for help!

Have I ever told you a great story?! I am racking my brains. I am working on something in which I have to tell my 'favorite' story...uh...and I can't decide if most of my stories are interesting or just embarssing...

Monday, March 14, 2011

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

"its the most important thing in life, its the person you leave behind you to change the world"

The title is from an interview I did recently with a guy about raising children. It warmed my heart a little and reminded how today is International Women's Day. While I am here studying dudes, I know my heart is really indebted to feminism and the work feminists have done over the last few decades (oh with the help of capitalism and other things, right?) to create a world where I can go out in the world as a young woman and do my own thing. Although,  this of course isn't the case internationally and we havent really established gender equality with in the USA. Women are still paid a lower wage on average, are for the most part expected to raise children AND work, and deal with a whole slew of other difficulties including being bombarded by unrealistic body images. Then, I believe there is the issue for young women of finding a balance between interdependce and independence...Of course being a man comes with its own sack of potatoes to lug around. The point is, I have many really great ladies in my life, and I am super greatful for them, so hvala ste (thank "you")

Sunday, March 6, 2011

In an effort to resist the habit of forgetting to write about...

a reverse-chronological list of things to write about:

a. Zagrebdox: A film about chickens. A film about the chambermaids of the Palace Hotel. A film about Ethopian long-distance runners moving to Serbia.
b. Birthday parties + Kinder cake.
c. Bus rides. Roadstop culture in Europe. Borders. Trading ipods.
d. VENICE! costumes. pretty. crowds. narrow passages. old women on motor boat. small fried fish. confetti on the ground. things that are red/orange/pink colored. invisable cities?
e. Protests.
f. Interview...

It has been a whirl wind couple of days. After letting my brain take a break to process I'll be back with a more poignent description and jarble and hopefully some photos.